Should I discuss my pornography-viewing habits with my friend?

I recently lent a good friend my laptop but forgot to wipe my internet history from it. When I was a single man, I used to occasionally watch porn online. After getting married, I have done so less frequently, and don't see it as a big deal. My email has nothing untoward apart from random spam mails (Viagra, lonely housewives etc). But after getting the laptop back, my friend hinted that I should log out of email accounts and wipe my history etc. It wasn't until later that I realised what he was hinting at. I'm guessing he had an issue with me watching this material. I don't want him to think I'm a freak; I think it's relatively normal to be curious. Should I approach him about this, or leave it be? • If you would like to respond to this week's problem, please post your comment below. When leaving a message on this page, please be sensitive to the fact that you are responding to a real person in the grip of a real-life dilemma, who wrote to Private Lives asking for help, and may well view your comments here. Please consider especially how your words or the tone of your message could be perceived by someone in this situation, and be aware that comments which appear to be disruptive or disrespectful to the individual concerned will be removed. • If you would like fellow readers to respond to a dilemma of yours, send us an outline of the situation of around 150 words. For advice from Pamela Stephenson Connolly on sexual matters, send us a brief description of your concerns. • All correspondence should reach us by Wednesday morning. Email: [email protected] (please don't send attachments)